Where can i find my server ip address or xbox help (port forwarding layout included) HELP PLEASE?

You don't use a server address to port forward, you forward to YOUR address. And you need a static address. Go to a href="http://portforward.com/english/applications/port_forwarding/Xbox_Live_360/Xbox_Live_360index.htm" rel="nofollow"http://portforward.com/english/applicati…/a pick your router and follow ALL the instructions. (Skip the ad.)